This difference in the way he spoke to me was the fine line between empowerment and pressure. He empowered me with self-belief instead of putting expectations in front of me. During the time between the heats and finals, my parents were also a key factor in my mental preparation. Never once focusing on breaking the national record, they acknowledged and celebrated my achievement of a long awaited PB that was achieved with the time of 12.24s.
At the back of my mind, was the memory of my uncle and the goal I had set out to achieve for him. Coming off the blocks, I knew I had a good start, but my finishing was more tiring than expected and so I did not expect to do a good timing. Looking at my coach, initially he did not have a very optimistic look. But that changed in a matter of 5 minutes and at that point I was overwhelmed with relief and joy. I had FINALLY done it for my uncle Looking back, I know none of this would have been possible without God. The odds of breaking the record in Singapore and not at the ultra fast track in Osaka were high but I overcame them. The weather that day was perfect and the audience was perfect, for I knew among my greatest supporters, my coach, my parents, my boyfriend and my team mates, was my uncle. And how very special it was that I had done it on home ground, Singapore, for my uncle, with the strength of my God.
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Instead of telling me that I will break the record and I must break the record, he said that I could do it and that he believed in me.
With such preparations, I went into the finals, relaxed and ready to run the race of my life. 


